Actually no, no one is invited to the wedding. We're jetting off to Fiji to tie the knot with locals as our witnesses, locals bringing some kind of cake, locals singing wedding songs of some sort, and a "rehearsal dinner" the night before on a mountain top with 6 other couples we've never met before. So don't feel left out!

It's not. No toasts, cutting of the cake, throwing the bouquet, speeches, goody bags or disposable cameras will be involved. You'll show up, enjoy some delicious food and drink, hobnob with us and as many friends and family as we could pull together, and wish us the best!

Nope. Ivy and Ale is wonderful. It's quaint, charming and small, nestled in a neighborhood, and does not require any kind of dress code. Be comfortable!

Not sure what a gold card is but no. You don't need to bring any money. Food and drinks are on us!